Saturday, August 1, 2009

I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

I've been in love with this adorable, adorable little emo girl ever since I saw her 2 years ago. Well She's not really EMO but more like adorable, shy, sweet, asian, quiet, under sized [Small boned] and she cuts her hair edgily.[just thought theses characteristics make an emo?], Anyway, but she likes this other guy in our school who is ALSO adorable, shy, quiet, asian, under-sized, and has edgy hair, they're like the male and female version of each other, the only advantage I stand over that guy is that he is a year younger than her, HOW DO I MAKE HER HATE HIM AND LOVE ME??????



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

There will no doubt be SOME obstancles in their relationship... Like you said, if he is a year younger than her and especially that you guys are in high school. That guy probably made his move because he's already think through that and he wouldn't mind having his girl-friend a bit older, but that doesn't mean it's okay with her... Yet. Meanwhile, you should really be start going up to her... Please believe me - you can never screw up THAT bad with these type of girls. You are in the same school she must have seen you around. Start by a smile, she's likely to look away but just keep smiling - try to hold her gaze.



Once she's familiar with you, try simple greedings and start short topics. It'll light up your day and hers, before you know it, she'll be happy to see you everyday.



"Male %26amp; Female version of each other" ... ...



If their relationship works out, it'll be a long, long wait for you because clone relationships usually last forever. Be happy for her and stay by her as her friend. You've waited for 2 years and it seems that you'll wait for even longer if this hasn't happened, so at least you'll be a part of her life instead of not, isn't that great already?



Support her, when the wait is over and when she's really over it and ready to start new, go for it, ask her out, she'll understand that you've been waiting for her all this time and she'll be really inspired, and that just might be the happily-ever-after for two of you :D



P.S.



Please don't try anything to make her hate him, I was desperate enough to do that once and ... ... " = . =



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

May be she's not the one for you! God knows.



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

This has restraining order written all over it.



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

make her be lealous of you and make her notice you.Talk to her,make her laugh,hang at lunch or someplace.Be nice and friendly but not to friendly.But don't be to anoying.Give hers ome hints that u like her a lil but don't seem to anxious and try not to bother her to much cause us girls thinks thats really anoying and afterwards we'd most likely not like you one bit!



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

So what are u waiting for than make a move but let me tell u something u can neve force anyone to love but to make them fall in love with u



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

first of all dont try and screw wit another persons relationship. make her notice you and find out that you are the better guy for her



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

ASK HER OUT ON A DATE OR MOVE ON WIT UR LIFE THERE MAY BE SOME ELSE



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

no, no, No, No, NO NO!!!



You do NOT Love her.



Love is a mutual feeling. You lust after her or you love the fantasy that you could be with her. If you REALLY loved her, you would respect the fact that she has feelings for someone else. Come to think of it, that's not even love, that's common decency.



Grow up little boy.



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

you cant force people to love you! Love isnt a game where you can kick the other players off the field. How about you make the brave move of talking to her. Then iam sure she will know your name and you might just have a chance



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

you should!! go fro it.... if u really like her you've got nothing to lose right... why not? but i know how u feel.. and im surprised i've never heard a story like this from a guy... its soo sweet. %26lt;3



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

Try to be her friend! I know it isn't as great as being in a relationship with her, however if you start as friends it takes ALL the anxiety and expectations away. Then, if she and the other guy hook up you can still hang out with her. Eventually they will break up and then you will still be her friend! As a friend you will always get to hang out with her, but when you get in a relationship you risk all that. Once you feel you are ready to take the next step, then you ask her on a date! It'll work out.



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

You waited to long, pal. Anyway, how on earth can someone say they love someone they never even talked to, much less dated and got to know, you are so confused.



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

you might just be in love with the idea of who she is. if she doesn't know your name, you probably don't know her too well. instead of living in a dream, i would just go up and talk to her. having moxie is very attractive! ask her out and get to know each other. what's meant to be will find way! you never know- she may have a crush on you and just think you're out of her league!



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

Well it sounds like you really like her a lot, but true love is making her happy at all costs, even if it means having the other guy. if you stick to making her happy your luck may change but dont try to get her to hate this other guy because you will probably hurt her in the process and that is selfish and cruel, that doesn't show love at all.



HOPE THIS HELPS!!! : )



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

It sounds to me as though you are obviously more concerned with yourself and your own jealousy than you are of her. Ask yourself which one of you would be best for her interest. Is this more than jealously and being afraid of loosing the girl or are you intimidated by a possible better suit.



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

You shoulda made your move 2 years ago buddy. I think you lost this one. Have you even talked to her? "how do i make her hate him and love me????' . . .sound like a punk. H8 to be blunt but look, either you find a way to talk to her and make her laugh or just give an overall good impression now, or forget about it. 24 months you waited for this wtf? Are you emo?



I Love her for 2 years but she doesnt even know my name?

I think someone else stole your thunder. What were you waiting for??????



Instead of making her hate him, why not work on getting closer to her. Work on making her fall in love with you. What you eventually want is to get her to see you as a (very attractive, understanding, devoted) friend. Then work to make the other guy jealous with "innocent" comments about how pretty/intelligent/funny/cute/etc she is (the other guy has to hear it of course). Also, ask her to meet you for a study session or for coffee. If he starts acting possessive of her, she will probably stop liking him, and at the right moment you can make your move.



A note on the side: why do you describe the other guy as "adorable"? It sounds weird when a guy says that about another guy.



Good luck!

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